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Friday 22 February 2019

Stay away when he's drunk


“ when the did is done, that which is done , can never be left undone”

This was the exact expression that described what happened in my  neighbor's house  last night.He was drunk and stupid and he did the unthinkable.  The young couple  just moved in a few months ago.Recently he started a bad routine of coming back late at night. He would go to  work in morning like a normal guy and not return  back home until late night . When he finally arrives, he begins his stupid tantrums here and there , and waves from one end of the house to another, like a war flag soon to be burnt down. While he does this,one May think, he conspired with all the host of demons in hell, just to annoy the living day light out of his wife.In my heart I would pray for his wife to just stay away from him and shut up. I think she may not be aware that, you can not reason with a drunkard. I would hear her speak to him,hoping she was communicating Perhaps." Ignore him" I continued to wish for her in my heart. like a plague just avoid him. Then,by the time the rhythm of the alcohol content completely takes  him to another different realm , where Olympus will have no choice but fall to the ground. Like a log of wood i often hear her insult her husband as fall asleep.Only then are you permitted to help him. Perhaps, remove his shoes and his cloths and all. If your Man is not a  violent drinker, you may approach him when he is drunk but, when you have the type that after getting drunk he becomes unreasonably aggressive well, you know what to do. Avoid him till he falls asleep.

Early this morning ,I saw the young woman moving her things from her husband’s house. It was not a good scene at all to behold . My neighbor’s wife that,if one would use a car to describe her. I think she will pass for  a Porsche or a Lamborghini. A master piece she was of blessed memories, what a class act. I have never noticed any spot on her face. A Fulani Meduguri ,tall educated piece of beauty like this woman.

Last night she was reduced to nothing by a drunk lunatic of a husband. Who seemed to have re-arranged this woman’s face to the extent, the pretty hair that use to be on her head, now tangled together like the snakes of Medusa .He did that to her  around 1:30 am last night. They said he did, because she stood in his way and ask him where he was coming from at 1am midnight . I heard, the idiot didn’t waste time before he re-arranged the complete anatomy of her face. The Porsche or Lamborghini I used to know is now  below the belt, she is nothing close to beauty anymore. From where I was standing ,anyone could see the mad  husband on his kneels , ashamed, repentant  perhaps,as he begged neighbors to help him beg his beloved wife. The annoying cliche that cascaded down his rediculous  lips was. “ Baby, it  was the devil” he cried out. The did is done, followed by damages. The drunk lunatic suddenly became Mike Tyson as he turned his wife to a punching bag last night. Allowing the unfortunate woman to gain weight she did not plan for from his fists. If she had know, she would have just ignore the idiot and allow him to sleep out his mystery, so that by the time he wakes up then you can nail some senses to his head. How do you reason with a drunk person. What kind of reason do you want to reason with a drunk self . When he is drunk, know that he is no longer in complete control of his actions, so please stay away from him. At that time ,he is dangerous I promise you.

         10 reasons when he is drunk
          You stay away!
         
1. He is not in control
2. He is angry
3. Aggressive
4. Dangerous
5. Unusually defensive by violence
6. Strong adrenaline
7. He won’t remember his action when the alcohol eventually wears off
8. He is completely soaked in regrets
9. Unclear sense of judgements
10. He is redundantly stupid

1 comment:

  1. Wonderful piece Adam but unfortunately it keeps happening in our society and beautiful women keep falling victims and most times the kids too. Just as you said avoiding him is the best action to take and pray he sleeps off without picking on his wife and kids.
    What he needs is love and care at the time of intoxication then in the morning when it's all gone or a bit of hangover sense can be talked to him. One day he'll change. But my advice is to avoid such relationship before going into marriage because if he doesn't stop before marriage, he ain't stopping while in. You can't change any human being only God can.

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