Research has proven that when a man is cheating there are a few reasons . Most ladies would agree with me when I say, there is no reason good enough to make a man cheat on his partner. But the world world is a crazy place, where almost anything is possible . With the world is an unfair place fast becoming a global village however. However, When a man decides to cheat on the one true person he claims to love and never to hurt , from the traces on his behaviors one can see that he is up to no after all. Now, he comes home to you accompanied Dr strange and all the evidence are pointing directly to the fact that he may have been with another lady, perhaps not an affair but , one never can be too sure .
Regardless of anything,you are sure he is cheating ,you have noticed all his odd behaviors , how unstable he is when he is with his phone, how he can almost be physical when you play close to his phones. How he hides to pick calls at odd hours.You have also noticed that he no longer rush after you when he comes back from work like he use too, even when you make afforts to make him see you, he is always complaining that he is tired . He no longer want to discuss anything with you.
Furthermore,when a man is in love he tries to impress his lover ,so he tells her everything, he tells her about his work ,who did this and who didn’t. Who got queried and who didn't. Who fell from the staircase and who didn’t. Who is a dick in the office and who is not . He basically tell his lover everything , as a matter of fact , from the power and the skill in his descriptions; it make it so clear to the extent , you begin to feel like you work in that office. Now, now he has being talking to someone else, then he has nothing to say to you.All of a sudden he plays too safe because he obviously do not want to shoot himself in the leg. If you have noticed all these things in your partners behaviors in recent times and you have the conviction that he is cheating. This are the 5 things you must do when you discover that he is cheating.
1. Don’t confront him : he is already expecting you to; so dont. he his looking for any excuse to justify his actions, he is guilty already. Try as much as you can not to get in his way, pretend not to see all his attitudes. He is going to put up that show for few days .In those few days, make sure you are extremely nice to him . As a matter of fact do it so well that he begin to question himself
2. Always maintain eye contacts : Make sure before he returns there is a good show waiting for him. Make sure you are always on point as regards your swag "be hot" at all time.make your hair ,do your nails, make sure you look seductive.Ultimately, it is paramount you look into his eyes at all times. Constantly maintain eye contact with him every time. The eye is said to be the window to the soul . Seduce him, make him say “there is something different with you, there something unusual about you ,I don’t know” believe me it works. Now, you are using him to fight your battles, the other woman out there don’t know him like you do ,the only thing she has, is her ability to see his frustrations and capitalized on that . Reasons why Side chicks trive in our societies today is there abilities to see what is lacking in a man, "happiness" mostly,they try to see the vacuum and they occupy it ,then they increase it from there . They treat him nicely fuck him like he was 25 in ageo . You on the inside gives him hell , because he is cheating, so she uses the situation to get him even more. It’s not difficult, a man don’t know how to hide anything and that’s why it is so vulnerable, it show on him and ladies cab smell it when a man is having trouble at home .
3. Stop doing that! : when a man tells you I don’t like this, I hate it don’t do it. Know that you are not the only one he is talking to .Now ,when suddenly he stops complaining ,know there someone already fixing that . What you on the inside must do is to use your husband to send message a to his Side chick ,because the only reason he is with her is because of the frustrations at home. He come home and noticed that all you guys will do is to fight,he knows that you are constantly going to be in a fight and angry mode, so you will never know about his infidelity. Surprise him, don’t fight, instead be nice and romantic .Trust me, he will be afraid.
4. Alibi: Make sure his alibis for cheating is usually because you don’t do this, you don’t do that .Now you looking pretty, while you are busy with your own work you send him text as short as “ you know I love you right” that’s going to be like assurance for him. The things he misses usually makes him run into another woman’s hands
5. The confessions : After a while, when you discovered that everything has come back to the way you want them to be. You begin by saying that “I know things were a little tough around us, I know I did a few thing that got you upset, perhaps even pushed you away to the extents I felt you were doing things you were not proud of. I know this period you cheated on me, please don’t do it again. More so, tell that lady that I know her and i know where she lives.The manner at which you say these things matters, the timing also matters, tone of your voice also matters. Am sure he will be afraid not to mess up again.
Nice write up! More like cheating in relationships or marriages is rampant in this era. Is either the husband is cheating or the wife is cheating. No more satisfaction in marriages anymore. Even in a situation where there is enough wealth and happiness, you still realise couples are on a quest of looking for what is lost outside their marriages. Is as if, the reality is, we are doomed not to have enough!
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